when straight cis guys try to be friends with me they usually try to relate to me off the basis that we both are attracted to women. they start pointing out women to me make comments about their bodies and gross invasive sexual stuff and expect me to do the same. they usually are unable or unwilling to find anything substantial that we have in common; ive come to realize that usually we dont even have our attraction to women in common. lesbians love women, but ive seen that straight men really just love making themselves feel good and women become tools to achieve that. women are often used as currency between men to gain status or dominance and that’s really really different from how most lesbians view and treat women. i LOVE women and sorry dudes, but it’s obvious that you definitely dont.
"Y que tus lunares no sean,
sino un pretexto más,
para besarte y explorarte todo el cuerpo."
— Si me llamas amor, José Vergara (via malditailusa)